Me Time
Hurry Up and Wait Summer
We just got back from the first of two summer cruises where we met the iguana pictured here. I read my goal of four books, including a 500-page vampire book, The Red Sacrament that I liked a lot though I know it wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea.
I'm happy for the home days to rest and catch up and see people and the travel days for fun and togetherness.
I hope your summer is coming along swimmingly.
Sapphic Lit and Other Book Stuff
Book news: Pansy acquires Laura Kay's landmark new novel -
Titled The Point Of It All, the book has already garnered praise from Clea DuVall, who said: “I’ve never read a book that captures the joy, agony and complexity of true love as honestly as The Point Of It All does. It absolutely knocked me out.” It has also received a significant six-figure US deal with Simon & Schuster’s Carina Guiterman.
Should You Use Substack for Your Email Newsletter? Or Something Else? | Jane Friedman
We can’t talk about Substack until we talk about your intention for your email newsletter.
‘Mary Oliver’ documentary tells the story of a lesbian poet through her aesthetic
Sasha Waters’ “Mary Oliver: Saved By The Beauty Of The World” is a straightforward, biographical account of its subject’s life
Podcast Publicity for Authors and Publishers: What's Working | Jane Friedman
More than ever, podcasts are moving the needle on sales, better in some cases than an author appearing on TV. Podcasts intersect significantly with conversations on social media, and someone can listen to a podcast months after the fact, offering a long tail of visibility.
News For A Challenging Time
Hawaii Supreme Court Rules That Unmarried Woman, a Nonbiological Parent, Is a Legal Parent - Mombian
The Hawaii Supreme Court has ruled that an unmarried woman who is not a biological parent can still be declared a legal parent to the child she “held out” as her own after starting a family with her former partner. This overturns a lower court ruling that had said only unmarried men could establish parentage that way.
Roxane Gay Is Entering Her Next Chapter - so.gay
One year after acquiring The Rumpus alongside celebrated designer, author, and Design Matters host Debbie Millman, the author is helping usher the publication into a bold new era.
New research shows women are moving away from heterosexuality - LGBTQ Nation
Young women show more fluidity among who they’re attracted to; men are more likely to be exclusively gay or straight.
Straight ally couple's huge Pride display gets surprise visit from pro-LGBTQ+ governor - LGBTQ Nation
The couple is also educating haters about why supporting the “Pride community” is more important than ever.
Culture and Joy
How To Watch Maya Hawke and Victoria Pedretti's Lesbian Short Film | Autostraddle
Maya Hawke and Victoria Pedretti star in a short film where they are GAY together
How Gay Will Mike Flanagan’s “Carrie” Be? At Least a Little Bit | Autostraddle
I’ve got a feeling Emaline will be queer; maybe even nonbinary. I don’t think you can really have a show focused on modern-day bullying without a queer character.
Jane Schoenbrun Set to Direct Gillian Anderson and Hannah Einbinder in ‘Secretary’ Live Reading | Them
We couldn’t think of a more perfect pairing of cast and material.
‘Elle’ Captures the Spirit of ‘Legally Blonde’ and Adds a Lesbian to the Mix | Autostraddle
And, the reason for the season: Liz, the school’s resident lesbian rocker who makes zines and leans into her nickname: Lizbian. (Bonus: Liz is played by Gabrielle Policano, who is queer in real life.) Liz is the first person Elle meets when she gets to her new school
'Othello' to Be Reimagined as Black Lesbian in New Production by Royal Shakespeare Company - GO Magazine
Acclaimed lesbian actress Sharon D. Clarke takes on the role in the new production opening next year.
Iconic Cartoon Girlfriends Return in 'Adventure Time: Bubblegum and Marceline' | Autostraddle
A new spinoff is coming to HBO Max, this time centering around the iconic duo Bubblegum and Marceline.
Why Lesbian Aunts Are the Backbone of Every Family | Them
Did you even know that there’s an entire day devoted to the sapphic sisters of your parents? Well, there should be. Because lesbian aunts are the givers of the best birthday gifts and — I can only say this because I am one — the weirdos who make family hangouts interesting in the first place.
Reading Makes You a Better Flirt | Autostraddle
callbacks are also an essential part of the extended flirt, by which I mean that the flirting isn’t contained to one time and place, such as an encounter at a bar that begins and ends at said bar. However, if you exchange numbers and the flirtation continues, you have the chance to use callbacks to your advantage.
Sapphic 101: Questions to ask on a first date -
Do you struggle to think of good conversation starters when meeting someone for the first time?
Layla Taylor of Secrets of Mormon Wives is dating a woman | Out.com
Layla Taylor of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives shared a video of her holding hands with another woman, captioned: 'I'm dating a woman now' to explain why she appeared to be 'glowing.'
Hunting Wives Co-Stars Malin Akerman and Brittany Snow Make Out at Las Culturistas Awards | Them
They danced, they vogued, they acted out and made out on stage to the cheers of the crowd at Bowen Yang and Matt Rogers' awards show in Los Angeles.
5 WLW Vertical Romances We Can’t Stop Watching - GO Magazine
Designed specifically for social media, these bite-sized dramas might not be shining examples of the best writing, acting, or directing, but hey, messy TV is popular for a reason. The problem is that there are just so many of them, with new series popping up every day. Where does one craving a binge-watch even begin?
LGBTQ stories, and silences, in the Forward archives
Jewish lesbian and athletic treasure Helen Hull Jacobs, world champion tennis star and 10-time grand slam title winner. Jacobs defined pride decades ago by defying Wimbeldon’s sexist clothing rules requiring women athletes to appear only in their approved tennis skirts. As early as 1933, when being openly queer was life-threatening, Jacobs filled in the silence merely by expressing her true butch Jewish lesbian self on the courts of Wimbledon. Reader: she wore short pants, tailored for men!
Queer author pens touching ode to chosen family: "They see who I am" - LGBTQ Nation
Acclaimed queer author Kristen Arnett recently shared the moving story of her queer Florida wedding, during which she was surrounded by chosen family after a decade of estrangement from her biological one.
'Ponies' Delivers Sapphic Spies and Female Friendship | Autostraddle
it’s nice to at least have a queer story that is about two adult women who aren’t tortured by their attraction to another woman.
Kristen Stewart says "homogeny doesn't exist" & talks directorial debut The Chronology Of Water with Imogen Poots - Queerty
Stewart’s directorial debut is remarkably bold and assured with striking imagery and a dreamlike narrative that carries you through, no matter how harrowing things might get. It’s a distinctly queer-feminist vision, and as she begins to navigate the career of the actor-turned-filmmaker, it’s clear Stewart’s not going to play anyone’s rules but her own.
LIVE INTERVIEW WITH JANELLE PEREZ - EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF LPAC - YouTube
Live on VENUS: Conversation with Janelle Perez, Executive Director of LPAC — the nation’s only org dedicated to electing LGBTQ women and non-binary candidates. We’ll dig into the Nov 4 election and the mission ahead.
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